Whether you’ve been to a Taylor Swift concert, sing along to her songs in your car, or scroll through her Instagram, one thing is clear: Taylor Swift is a master at celebrating relationships. From her famous "squad" to the ways she honors friendship through her lyrics, she constantly reminds us that sisterhood and support are powerful forces in life. But the lessons Taylor teaches about friendship, loyalty, and empowerment go beyond her music—they resonate deeply with what it means to be part of Phi Mu.

As alumnae of Phi Mu, we can take these lessons to heart, using them to continue fostering sisterhood, building each other up, and staying connected no matter where life takes us. Here are five things Taylor Swift has taught us about sisterhood that ring true for Phi Mu alumnae.

Celebrate Each Other’s Successes, Always

Taylor Swift is known for how she celebrates the accomplishments of her friends—whether it’s cheering them on at events or giving them shout-outs on social media. This kind of encouragement is what sisterhood is all about. As Phi Mu alumnae, we should continue to celebrate each other’s wins, both big and small. Whether a sister gets a promotion, launches a new business, or takes a leap of faith in her personal life, it’s important that we show up to support and cheer each other on.

Just because we’ve graduated doesn’t mean we stop celebrating each other’s milestones. In fact, alumnae sisterhood means recognizing that life’s achievements look different at every stage, and no success is too small to celebrate with your Phi Mu sisters.

What We Can Do: Send a congratulatory note, text, or call when you hear about a sister’s accomplishment. A little support can go a long way in showing your ongoing love and pride in her journey. 🌟

Be There for Each Other During the Tough Times

Taylor Swift has been open about her struggles—whether it's heartbreak, career challenges, or personal growth. Through it all, her close-knit circle of friends has stood by her side, offering unwavering support. As alumnae, we know that life gets messy, and sometimes things don’t go as planned. But sisterhood is about being there for each other through those tough times. Phi Mu has always been a safe space where we could lean on each other, and that doesn’t change after graduation.

The bond we share as sisters means being a constant source of support, whether it’s lending a listening ear, offering advice, or simply being present during difficult moments.

What We Can Do: When a sister is going through a challenging time, reach out to her. Even a simple "I’m here for you" can make a huge difference. Sisterhood is about being a steady presence, especially when life feels uncertain. 💞

Build a Support Network That Empowers You

One of the things Taylor Swift has mastered is surrounding herself with people who lift her up. Her "squad" is filled with women who support one another, and it’s a great reminder that we should do the same. As Phi Mu alumnae, we have a built-in network of support in our sisterhood. Whether it’s reconnecting with an old friend or joining an alumnae chapter in a new city, the Phi Mu network is filled with sisters who are ready to empower and inspire you.

Sisterhood isn’t just about friendship—it’s about empowerment. Being surrounded by women who encourage you to chase your dreams, live authentically, and stay true to your values is one of the greatest gifts of our sisterhood.

What We Can Do: If you’re feeling disconnected, reach out to your Phi Mu network—join a local alumnae chapter, attend events, or simply reconnect with old sisters online. Strengthening your support network can help you thrive, both personally and professionally. 💖

Lift Each Other Up, Don’t Compete

One of the best lessons Taylor Swift teaches is that there is enough room for everyone to succeed. Instead of competing with one another, she celebrates other women’s accomplishments and creates a space where everyone can shine. In Phi Mu, we learn the importance of lifting each other up, not comparing or competing with one another.

As alumnae, we can carry this lesson forward by continuing to support our sisters, no matter where they are in life. There’s no room for comparison or jealousy in sisterhood—there’s only room for love, respect, and mutual admiration.

What We Can Do: When you feel the urge to compare yourself to a sister’s success, shift your mindset to one of support. Celebrate her wins and trust that your journey is just as important. There’s room for everyone to shine! 🌸

Stay Connected, No Matter Where Life Takes You

Taylor Swift’s friendships have stood the test of time, even as life has taken her and her friends in different directions. Similarly, Phi Mu sisterhood lasts far beyond our college years. Whether we’ve moved to a new city, started a new career, or taken on new roles as mothers, professionals, or community leaders, it’s important to stay connected.

Even when we’re miles apart or on different life paths, the bond we share through Phi Mu remains strong. Social media, alumnae chapters, and reunions give us opportunities to reconnect and strengthen our sisterhood, no matter where life takes us.

What We Can Do: Make an effort to stay connected to your Phi Mu sisters. Attend reunions, join Phi Mu groups on social media, or simply reach out to check in. The bond you built in college is meant to last a lifetime. 💫

Taylor Swift has taught us that sisterhood isn’t just about having friends—it’s about showing up, empowering one another, and staying connected through every chapter of life. As Phi Mu alumnae, we know that sisterhood isn’t something that ends when we graduate. It’s a bond that lasts forever, guiding us through life’s highs and lows, offering us friendship, support, and empowerment along the way.

Whether we’re celebrating each other’s successes or standing by each other during tough times, the lessons we’ve learned from Phi Mu and from women like Taylor Swift remind us that sisterhood is one of life’s greatest gifts.

Let’s continue to lift each other up, stay connected, and celebrate the incredible journey of sisterhood—together.